Choosing an ABA provider is a big decision. For many families, it’s not just about finding a service; it’s about finding someone who will really understand your child, someone who sees that your child is more than a diagnosis, more than a list of goals.
At Let’s Play NGrow, we’ve sat across from hundreds of parents at that very first meeting. Some come with a notebook full of questions. Others just sit quietly, unsure where to begin. Either way, you’re doing something incredibly brave: advocating.
Whether you’re starting ABA therapy for the first time or trying to decide between providers, you and your child’s time and emotions are valuable. Make the most of finding a new provider with these five questions that can help you find a team that fits beyond what’s just on paper.
1. How do you get to know each child before jumping into therapy?
You’re not looking for someone to jump straight into reinforcement schedules and behavior plans. You want to know that they’ll take time to understand your child as a whole person.
Ask about their process. Will the therapist observe your child naturally before creating goals? Do they make space for relationship-building before asking your child to do hard things?
At Let’s Play N Grow, we always start with connection. We believe that no pressure and no expectations are the perfect baseline for us to get to know each other through play, curiosity, and trust. We believe a child who feels safe will show you what they need and what they’re capable of.
2. What kind of training does your team receive, beyond the basics?
It’s fair to expect a therapist to be qualified. But it’s essential to understand how their learning continues. What are they learning about neurodiversity, communication differences, sensory needs, or trauma-informed care?
Ask if the staff is just certified or also growing. Are they being coached on how to build authentic relationships with kids? Are they learning to adapt when things don’t go as planned (which they often don’t)?
At our center, we don’t stop at technical skills. Our staff is trained to approach every child and family with compassion, flexibility, and a genuine sense of hospitality. We coach them not only in behavior analytics techniques, but in how to really listen to parents and kids alike.
3. How involved will I be in my child’s therapy?
You should never feel like you’re sitting on the sidelines. Great ABA invites the whole family to the table. That doesn’t mean running the sessions; it means being empowered to carry the work into everyday life, in a way that feels good to your child and to you.
Ask how the provider supports parent involvement. Will you get regular updates, not just data? Can you watch sessions, learn the tools, and ask questions openly?
At Let’s Play N’ Grow, we treat parents as partners from day one. You know your child better than anyone. We don’t just allow your involvement, we rely on it. We hold regular check-ins and training, and we always leave space for your voice in the process.
4. How many people will be working directly with my child?
Consistency matters. It’s how relationships are built. It’s how kids learn to feel safe enough to try something new.
Ask how many therapists will rotate through your child’s sessions. Some variety can help with generalization, but too many faces too fast can feel overwhelming, especially in the beginning.
5. What makes your approach feel right for families like mine?
This is where you get to hear their heart, not their credentials. Ask them what they believe in, what they think good therapy looks like, and what kind of outcomes they really care about.
You’ll learn a lot in the answer. Do they light up when they talk about progress and connection? Or do they default to numbers and charts?
At Let’s Play Grow, we believe play is more than fun; it’s a language. It’s how kids communicate, learn, and build trust. Our approach is deeply personal, always respectful, and rooted in joy. We don’t believe in changing who your child is; we’re here to help them grow into who they already are.
A Final Note From One Caregiver to Another
We know how much you’ve already done just to get here. The research. The phone calls. The doubts. The hopes.
Asking questions isn’t about being skeptical. It’s about showing up for your child. It’s about ensuring that the people you trust with their care feel trustworthy.
And if you ask us these questions? We won’t be annoyed. We’ll be glad because it tells us what kind of parent you are: thoughtful, engaged, and fiercely loving. That’s the kind of parent we love to work with.
We’re Ready to Answer Your Questions at Let’s Play N’ Grow
At Let’s Play N’ Grow, we’re all about answering questions and making the families we serve feel right at home. Taking the leap into ABA therapy can be a daunting step, but the good news is, we’re here when you’re ready. Call, email, or stop by to discuss your hopes, fears, and next steps. No pressure. Just real people who care..
Let’s build something beautiful, together, for your child’s future. Contact us today!